How to handle being in love with multiple guys
You are in love with two guys, and you know that they are amazing, and they both deserve your love and attention. But you don’t know how to handle being in love with multiple guys simultaneously. Here is a piece to help you manoeuvre the situation if you are that lady.
Being in love with multiple guys simultaneously is very normal but knowing the way to handle the situation is more important.
- 1 Can you be in love with multiple guys at the same time?
- 2 What if two people love you?
Can you be in love with multiple guys at the same time?
It’s not uncommon to fall in love with more than one person at a time. Because we’re human beings, and there’s nothing wrong with feeling attracted to different guys at different times in our lives.
However, it can be difficult to deal with when you realize you’re attracted to someone other than your partner. When this happens, emotions can become jumbled, making it difficult to discern our true feelings toward one another.
Being honest with yourself is key when trying to figure out whether you want something more than just friendship with someone else or not.”
Be honest with yourself.
Being in love with multiple guys means that you have to be honest about how you feel. You may not feel ready to date all of them, or maybe you don’t want a serious relationship. Whatever your reason for having feelings for more than one man, it’s important to own up to it and not try to push it away.
Talk to your friends.
It’s so easy to fall into the trap of not being able to talk about your feelings with anyone. I know because I’ve been there. But you need support and a safe place to talk about what’s going on, even if it’s just for an hour a week or a day. You don’t have to tell them everything, but having someone who knows that you’re going through this can be really helpful.
Determine who is the best fit for you
The best way to handle being in love with multiple guys is to determine who is best for you. If they both appear to be good options, you may want to compare them based on specific criteria to see what makes each guy unique and why he might be a better fit than another.
For example, maybe one guy is handsome but has no ambition while the other is not as attractive but has goals and dreams that align with yours. That will help narrow down your list of options and better understand what kind of partner would be best for your needs and desires.
Don’t jump into anything.
If you’re unsure who you want to be with, don’t jump into anything. Take some time off from dating and focus on yourself for a while.
Get to know yourself better and see if any red flags pop up when you think about these boys. You don’t want to waste your time dating someone who isn’t right for you if it takes too long for one of them to come around!
Take things slow with both boys at once!
It’s okay if they get jealous of each other because that means they like you! But try not to make any major decisions while you are still getting used to them both because it can make things complicated quickly!
Don’t let fear dictate your choices.
A relationship will always have the possibility of disappointment, but that doesn’t mean you should avoid them entirely out of fear.
Don’t let your fear of being hurt stop you from sharing your heart with someone. Also, make sure you are not making any decision based on the readiness of one of these men. Take your time and choice what’s best for you.
What if two people love you?
This is a question of the case being reversed. When two people love you, it can be difficult to decide who to choose. This is a common problem for many people. Our society places so much emphasis on romantic love that we tend to think that it’s the only kind of love.
We all want to be loved and cherished, but knowing what to do when two people are interested in you can be difficult.
This is very similar to the first case. But if you do love one of them, follow your heart.
If you love both of them I think you will like to go through the above advice again. By the way, you get this!
Don’t let yourself fall into seeing multiple people at once without meaning because chances are things won’t work out with any of them anyway! You’ll end up wasting time on people who weren’t right for you